How To Make Him Like You

The 8 Best Ways To Make Him Like You

1. Get him talking about his passions.

Do you have anything in your life that when you’re asked about it, you just absolutely light up? A topic or interest or hobby that you can’t get enough of.That you love talking about. That you could talk to anyone for hours and hours on. That’s a passion of yours. And it feels good to talk about it, right? It feels just as good for him to talk about his passions.

2. Be open about the things you love with him.

This ties directly into what I was just saying before. When you share the things you love with him, it lights you up inside. You feel great doing it. And when you feel great, the people around you can’t help but feel great as well. It’s contagious. They share your passion and your enthusiasm. So don’t be afraid to share what you’re really passionate about with him. When you do that, you’re giving him a glimpse at your most authentic self (and if he’s attracted to that, he’ll start to really, really like you really, really quickly). Plus, you’ll feel great, which will make him feel great, which will make him want to be around you more, like we already talked about.

3. Don’t be afraid to flirt with him.

Let me let you in on a secret you probably already know: lots of guys are OBLIVIOUS. I mean they wouldn’t know that a woman was into them if she dropped the biggest hint onto his face. So a lot of the time, playing it cool around him is only going to set you back. Why? Because lots of guys don’t start thinking of a woman romantically unless they realize she’s interested in them. So don’t be afraid to flirt with him! You’ll get the sparks flowing, get him thinking about you in a ‘more than friendly’ kind of way, and you’ll see what kind of connection you two have.

4. Body contact works wonders.

This goes hand in hand with flirting. Breaking the skin to skin barrier and touching him is a great way to stoke his desire and get him thinking about you in a more intimate way. When you touch him, you’re letting him know you’re comfortable around him – and that you want to touch him. To any guy who’s into women, that’s a huge sign that he should perk up and reciprocate. So don’t be afraid to touch him on the arm if he makes you laugh or otherwise take any excuse to put your hands on him. It will make him want to return the favor.

5. Make sure to look your best.

So far, we’ve focused on a lot of psychological/flirting ways to get him to like you. But one that I’d be wrong to skip is the visual aspect of attraction. It’s been written over and over and over again, and that doesn’t make it any less true: guys are very visual creatures. Many men become attracted through their eyes first. So if you want to make him like you, be sure to look your best. I’m not asking you to do the impossible, and I’m also not saying you have to look like a model – far from it.

6. Live your own life outside of his orbit.

When you’re really into a guy, it’s tempting to want to drop everything for the chance to hang out with him. But that’s not how attraction works. Both men and women are attracted to people who seem like they have their lives together – and who seem like they have a lot going on that makes them happy.

7. Don’t commit to him if he hasn’t with you.

This applies more if you have something casual with him and you want it to get a little more serious, so you’re hoping to get him to like you more and more. But it’s a good rule to remember no matter what and it can be applied to most any situation with a guy. Simply stated, the rule is to be exactly as committed to him as he is to you.

8. Try to be as relaxed, comfortable, and happy as you can be when you’re together.

We talked about this at the top of the article, but it bears repeating because it’s so important. People like to be around other people that make them feel good. It feels good to be around someone who’s happy, relaxed, and comfortable – just like it feels bad to be around someone who’s irritable, uncomfortable, and on edge.

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